Racial tensions were already on the high this year, and they spiked again last week in Charlotte, North Carolina.
How many of us watched the videos of what happened, either shaking our heads or biting our fingernails? Another black man was shot by a police officer. Another protest turned into a riot, leaving officers injured and ravaging the streets. North Carolina Gov. Pat McCrory declared a state of emergency in Charlotte Sept. 21.
Both sides of this war have suffered great loss. Events like these leave us feeling confused and angry — not a good combination of emotions.
Anger is understandable. We have seen people get hurt, and we fear the same could happen to us or someone we love. Confusion, on the other hand, is much more complicated.
It’s difficult to pick sides when both parties seem to be at fault in this story. We have read stories and watched videos of police officers using their power to hurt others. On the other hand, protesters have lost control and become violent.
Black Lives Matter has stood up for many black men who were shot by police. The movement fights for a good cause, and, for every one violent riot we see on television, there are many more peaceful protests across the country.
The law enforcement in the United States is supposed to be trusted. Regardless of their errs, they are still our authorities. I believe most officers are good people.
Unfortunately, the handful of protesters who smash windows and create chaos in the streets damage the reputation of Black Lives Matter. The handful of officers who abuse their power damage the reputation of the American justice system.
If we really want change to take place, I believe we need to recognize that both sides are damaged and need healing. Put yourself in the other’s shoes. Lay down your own weapons, and let nothing standing in between you and your enemy.
I believe we as a nation need to be reconciled, which is not easy. It usually means giving up your fight so the other side can share their struggles with you. I know this is not what many people want to do because some are adamant on obtaining their own justice.
One day, I hope we come to understand that the only way anything can change is through love.
